Teens and behavioral FREE SEX - Today, the problems of our youth is a very serious issue. If the adolescent problems that exist in this country is not reduced and resolved quickly, it can cause destruction of the order of the nation in the future. Some of the factors that encourage teenagers junior and senior high school age to have sex outside of marriage including the influence of social liberalism or free-living, environmental factors and family factors that support to behavior as well as the influence of the mass media. Free sex is sexual behavior outside of marriage. According to Sigmund Freud, sex is a basic instinct that has been around since man was born. From birth, humans have become sexual beings or have libido (sexual energy) that have evolved through phases: oral, anal, phallic and genital.
Adolescence is a period of a person in a state of active puberty where everything is for him to know, therefore adolescence is essential to a child's moral and spiritual guidance. As a creature that has such a high egoism many teens have very easily affected personally by i. At this time they are very vulnerable in terms of who can influence good or bad behavior. Examples of bad behavior that can descend a young soul is a desire to try the taste of liquor, drugs, and even sex.
One of the biggest factors that lead our youth fall into casual sex behavior is a lack of affection and attention from their parents than was the role of religion and family are very important to anticipate the behavior of the adolescent. For that, we need the openness between parents and children with effective communication. Perhaps as a place to vent for your children, supporting the desired hobby for positive activities for him, such as sporting events, in addition to maintaining a healthy body, rushing out of school like sports can create their attention towards these activities. Thus, minimize the possibility for them to make behavioral aberrations.
Need to develop a model of coaching youth health-related production. It needs a container to hold the adolescent reproductive problems that suit their needs. Directional information either formally or informally that includes sex education, sexually transmitted diseases, family planning and other activities can also help reduce the incidence of free sex among teenagers. It needs a firm stance of the government in taking action against the perpetrators of sex. By providing the appropriate punishment for the perpetrators of sex, they are not expected to repeat such actions.
The impact of free sex for our health such as;
1. Physical Impacts;
a. For women under age 17 years who have had sex will freely at high risk of cervical cancer.
b. Risk of contracting venereal diseases and HIV-AIDS which can cause infertility and even death.
c. The KTD (Unwanted Pregnancy) to abortion can cause infertility, cervical cancer, permanent disability and even lead to death.
2. The psychological impact is often overlooked when doing free sex is going to always come up with guilt, anger, sadness, regret, shame, loneliness, no help, confused, stress, self-hate, hate on the people involved, fear not clear, insomnia (difficulty sleeping), loss of confidence, eating disorders, loss of concentration, depression, grief, can not forgive yourself, fear of divine punishment, nightmares, feeling empty, hallucinations, difficulty maintaining relationships.
How to avoid promiscuity is even the reason the word "evidence of affection or love," etc.? Virtually all returned to our respective individual. Prevent it is a matter that should be cooperative from various aspects such as the teens themselves - the parents - the school and the community. All aspects must be offset by earlier religious and social norms. If someone has been in the Arm and medical science in religion on the impact of free sex earlier, all the decisions in his hands alone.
Reject means to be brave and decisive say NO to SEX-FREE.
So here are some reasons why this may happen:
1. CAN NOT SAY 'NO':
Usually fearing terminated by her boyfriend. How to maintain the relationship. And usually, after that my girlfriend would run well.
Seduce girlfriend is such a way, until finally could not resist. After that, who will be responsible for it?
Usually used as an excuse as proof of love. Actually, if you really love, would keep them from having sex do after marriage.
2. CHILDREN NOT FEEL GAUL
With ever had sex, considered 'Gaul'. One great though. However, many young people who have a low self-concept still do so is considered 'Gaul'.
3. BUSINESS
Prostitution is rapidly evolving, just the lure of money with large values can make teenagers do loh! In some areas, young people are also used as a business tool by parents or because of the problem of poverty.
4. RELIGIOUS VALUES ARE DECREASED.
Religious values were reduced in children so that there is no longer any fear.
5. DISPLAY TV
Lack of parental supervision in watching TV, parents should assist and provide advice and guidance on what the kids watch.
6. LIFESTYLE
Some teens who do say that it is a lifestyle.
Just look in the mirror of youth in Dumpit Tangerang, they are a teenager who has an attitude and a good self-concept. Teenagers from the bottom, though often forced to work to help their parents, still have a principle to not have sex before marriage. They know that they will say 'NO' and learn to respect themselves.
Adolescence is a period of a person in a state of active puberty where everything is for him to know, therefore adolescence is essential to a child's moral and spiritual guidance. As a creature that has such a high egoism many teens have very easily affected personally by i. At this time they are very vulnerable in terms of who can influence good or bad behavior. Examples of bad behavior that can descend a young soul is a desire to try the taste of liquor, drugs, and even sex.
One of the biggest factors that lead our youth fall into casual sex behavior is a lack of affection and attention from their parents than was the role of religion and family are very important to anticipate the behavior of the adolescent. For that, we need the openness between parents and children with effective communication. Perhaps as a place to vent for your children, supporting the desired hobby for positive activities for him, such as sporting events, in addition to maintaining a healthy body, rushing out of school like sports can create their attention towards these activities. Thus, minimize the possibility for them to make behavioral aberrations.
Need to develop a model of coaching youth health-related production. It needs a container to hold the adolescent reproductive problems that suit their needs. Directional information either formally or informally that includes sex education, sexually transmitted diseases, family planning and other activities can also help reduce the incidence of free sex among teenagers. It needs a firm stance of the government in taking action against the perpetrators of sex. By providing the appropriate punishment for the perpetrators of sex, they are not expected to repeat such actions.
The impact of free sex for our health such as;
1. Physical Impacts;
a. For women under age 17 years who have had sex will freely at high risk of cervical cancer.
b. Risk of contracting venereal diseases and HIV-AIDS which can cause infertility and even death.
c. The KTD (Unwanted Pregnancy) to abortion can cause infertility, cervical cancer, permanent disability and even lead to death.
2. The psychological impact is often overlooked when doing free sex is going to always come up with guilt, anger, sadness, regret, shame, loneliness, no help, confused, stress, self-hate, hate on the people involved, fear not clear, insomnia (difficulty sleeping), loss of confidence, eating disorders, loss of concentration, depression, grief, can not forgive yourself, fear of divine punishment, nightmares, feeling empty, hallucinations, difficulty maintaining relationships.
How to avoid promiscuity is even the reason the word "evidence of affection or love," etc.? Virtually all returned to our respective individual. Prevent it is a matter that should be cooperative from various aspects such as the teens themselves - the parents - the school and the community. All aspects must be offset by earlier religious and social norms. If someone has been in the Arm and medical science in religion on the impact of free sex earlier, all the decisions in his hands alone.
Reject means to be brave and decisive say NO to SEX-FREE.
So here are some reasons why this may happen:
1. CAN NOT SAY 'NO':
Usually fearing terminated by her boyfriend. How to maintain the relationship. And usually, after that my girlfriend would run well.
Seduce girlfriend is such a way, until finally could not resist. After that, who will be responsible for it?
Usually used as an excuse as proof of love. Actually, if you really love, would keep them from having sex do after marriage.
2. CHILDREN NOT FEEL GAUL
With ever had sex, considered 'Gaul'. One great though. However, many young people who have a low self-concept still do so is considered 'Gaul'.
3. BUSINESS
Prostitution is rapidly evolving, just the lure of money with large values can make teenagers do loh! In some areas, young people are also used as a business tool by parents or because of the problem of poverty.
4. RELIGIOUS VALUES ARE DECREASED.
Religious values were reduced in children so that there is no longer any fear.
5. DISPLAY TV
Lack of parental supervision in watching TV, parents should assist and provide advice and guidance on what the kids watch.
6. LIFESTYLE
Some teens who do say that it is a lifestyle.
Just look in the mirror of youth in Dumpit Tangerang, they are a teenager who has an attitude and a good self-concept. Teenagers from the bottom, though often forced to work to help their parents, still have a principle to not have sex before marriage. They know that they will say 'NO' and learn to respect themselves.
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